Tuesday, October 6, 2009
Another one!
Congratulations!
Monday, October 5, 2009
Another lovely lady
I'm working with another sweet, sweet lady with dementia. She is, as we often say, "pleasantly confused." She is a happy 96-year-old, but doesn't know the doorjam from the donuts.
She is full of non-sequiters and oddities. Such as, when I asked her how her lunch was tasting, she said, "It's okay. It isn't complete, but it is arriving in degrees." As we made our way down the hall, she said, apropos of nothing, "I think she was more pleasant later in the day." And a few steps later, "I want you to confirm it because I don't think it is."
We've been doing mouth and throat exercises to strengthen her swallowing. She was dutifully following my model when I decided to take a break. I asked her, "When is your birthday?"
She very clearly and distinctly articulated, "When. is. your. friendship?"
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Saturday, October 3, 2009
Edison's Medicine
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Tuesday, September 29, 2009
It's Alive!
These little guys are crustaceans about an inch long, and you can always see them at the beach. They don't do much but scurry to re-bury themselves when they are washed out of the sand. They are kinda fun to play with. I had never seen so many all in one place, though!
Here is a picture.
Here is a video. It's not the greatest quality, but you get the idea!
Monday, September 28, 2009
A Tale of Two Ladies
All three are in similar places now, at this time of their lives. But getting to know them, I see they traveled here on very different paths. I want to tell you about two of them.
Mrs. S was born in Oklahoma and grew up dirt-poor in Tennessee during the Depression. When she was in her early teens, her mother left her father. A cousin from California drove to Tennessee to get the family and moved them out West. Mrs. S had to quit school in the 8th grade to care for her baby brothers when her mom had to go to work. Though she can't remember if she ate breakfast this morning, she is full of stories of a large, warm, supportive family. For example, a cousin was orphaned and was sent to live with an "evil" aunt. Other relatives shuttled around the unfortunate little girl to shield her from the unhappy situation in that house. Though she grew up poor, it is obvious Mrs. S grew up happy and loved. Her extended family is important to her.
Mrs. W is another delightful lady. She grew up in a very wealthy home in the suburbs of Cleveland. During the Depression, in her words (she gave me a written brief biography), "While people were living out of garbage cans during those years, and the Oakies were struggling across the country, we had our sacrifices, too. Our household staff was reduced to a live-in cook and a live-in maid."
Mrs. W's stories of her childhood are heart-wrenching. Her mother was cold and abusive. There was no love in her house. Her higher education was in fits and starts, depending on if her mother would give her the needed money or not. She finally got a master's degree in library science at age 41.
She overcame a disastrous marriage, too, and eventually found her way to a fulfilling, happy life. She raised two kids as a single mother. She is an animal rescuer and currently has four cats. Lately one has died. She feels his loss deeply; her animals are extremely important to her. She is a laughing, happy, sweet lady that I have the real pleasure to know.
Getting to know these women really got me thinking. It isn't always about where you were, but where you are. Life can put up obstacles of many kinds. There are ways to knock down obstacles. You can decide to do that, or you can decide not to. Finding the path to Happiness is not always easy, but there is more than one way there. Go out and find it!
"Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be." --Abraham Lincoln
"Happiness is nothing more than good health and a bad memory." --Albert Schweitzer
Sunday, September 27, 2009
His sniffer is better than Brag's!

The chief's writing at the bottom reads, "Thanks for the great response & attn to duty. Chief Sanchez"
Congratulations, Officer Squid!
Friday, September 25, 2009
Singin' Seance
Being a theater student has its perks! Her teacher had an acting stint in NYC, and he got to know composer Stephen Schwartz, who has written such works as Pippin, Godspell, and Wicked. Mr. Schwartz has said goodbye to one-word titles and created Séance on a Wet Afternoon, an opera commissioned by Opera Santa Barbara, enjoying its world premiere this weekend!
He visited Erin's class this week! He talked about the creative process, particularly in composing songs. He played and sang. He ate a snack.
And that's not all! The students got to attend last night's dress rehearsal of the new opera! Erin enjoyed it, but comments included, "It was creepy and scary. I'm going to have nightmares."
Theater is cool!
(check back later--Erin said a group picture was taken, and if I can get ahold of it, I'll post it here)
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
Happy Autumnal Equinox!
Things I Like About Autumn
- Soup time
- Hallowe'en (Party on October 30! You are invited! If you want to come, contact me and I'll tell you when and where!)
- Hallowe'en: the start of Candy Season
- My Birthday!
- It's Santa Barbara! Come on, how bad is any season?
- Thanksgiving, one of my favorite holidays
- Fires in the fireplace
- STORM WATCH 2009
- Autumn is a cool word
- Gaucho basketball
Saturday, September 19, 2009
"Knock-Knock..."
"Inturrupting Kanye."
"Inturrupting Kan--"
--"I'm gonna let you finish...."
Arrrrrrrr!
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
Saturday, September 12, 2009
Hammer Time!
Homeowner hammers would-be burglar
Mountain Avenue resident struggles with her attacker; who flees after getting hit
By MARCI WORMSER
NEWS-PRESS STAFF WRITER
According to Santa Barbara Police Department Lt. Paul McCaffrey, the 51-year-old homeowner was working in her backyard at about 3:15 p.m. when her dogs began "making a commotion" and then ran over to a shed in the yard. After the woman followed her pets, she saw the suspect walking out of the shed.
The suspect lunged at her, grabbed her clothing and arms and slapped her, according to Lt. McCaffrey. Because the property is uneven, the suspect lost his footing as he was attacking his victim, which gave her a chance to grab a nearby hammer and swing it at the suspect's head.
After the suspect was hit with the hammer, he ran toward La Cumbre Junior High School and hasn't been seen since.
The victim, who only suffered minor injuries, told police officers she doesn't think anything was stolen from the shed.
Police officials are asking anyone who thinks they may have seen the suspect to call the department.
The suspect may have been hanging around the area, Lt. McCaffrey said.
He is described as a white man in his 30s, with long brown hair and a beard. He was wearing a khaki-colored jacket at the time of the incident.
But should people also be on the lookout for a man with a large hammer mark on his head? No, says Lt. McCaffrey. There is no evidence that the hapless suspect was gravely injured by the hammer.
A photograph accompanied the article. (Apologies for the scan; the website is set up very badly and I was afraid I was going to be subscribing to the rag instead of just buying one article.)

Wednesday, September 9, 2009
Tuesday, September 8, 2009
A Strange Pull
Who else feels perplexed by the "outrage" by some Americans about the speech? I feel sad, too, that the President is looked upon as some sort of enemy. When the news came out about his proposed speech, there was misinformation and fear swirling around those groups who don't like Obama. It seemed silly and a bit frightening all at once that people can blindly make decisions like that.
As President Obama said today, "And that’s what I want to focus on today: the responsibility each of you has for your education. I want to start with the responsibility you have to yourself."
Education. Reading. It's not just for schoolchildren anymore.
Thursday, September 3, 2009
Junior and Freshman
YAY!
Kevin has enrolled in three classes at Santa Barbara City College, a jewel in our community. Needless to say, I am very happy!
Erin has started off the year at Dos Pueblos High School with a bang, being diligent about homework. This makes me happy, too! She is headlong into her crew duties as well, preparing for the fall play, You Can't Take It With You.
It's going to be a great year!
Monday, August 31, 2009
Bad Onion!
Gotta laugh to keep from crying.
Californians Gather To Celebrate Annual Wildfire Tradition
Sunday, August 30, 2009
Twilight Zone: The After Hours
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Beach Day!
It was another gorgeous day! The promised cooling did not arrive. It is still in the mid-80s to low-90s depending on where you are in town. It was really perfect at East Beach.
After the beachtime, we headed to the skate park for a bit.
Saturday, August 29, 2009
Police Stories
From August 25 Santa Barbara Daily Sound police blotter:
August 23, 12:15 a.m. — Officers responding to an audible alarm at Tienda Ho, 1105 State St., learned police had been called to that location the day prior after employees believed a man had hidden himself somewhere in the store.
Police had searched the store at that time but were unable to find any sign of the suspect. They did find clothing and a backpack that were booked into evidence. After the alarm sounded, authorities brought in a police dog and located a 33-year-old man lying behind the cash register.
The suspect had apparently hidden in a crawl space in the store during business hours. However, the owner had locked the door to the crawl space and blocked it with wooden furniture. The suspect had apparently forced his way out of the space, causing damage to store property.
Authorities booked the 33-year-old for prowling, vandalism, interfering with a business and providing false identification to peace officers.
(What this story does not say is who was able to find the guy hiding when even the dog missed him. Can you guess who?)
From August 29 Santa Barbara Daily Sound:
Road rage incident leads to shots fired
By DAILY SOUND STAFF — Aug. 29, 2009
Road rage apparently led a 59-year-old man to fire a pistol into the air several times in a Santa Barbara neighborhood before police caught up to him on Highway 101.
Authorities said William Anthony, of Atascadero, had been driving his vehicle along Alisos Street near Cacique Street at 7:15 p.m. on Thursday when he apparently became involved in a road rage incident with another driver.
After the two motorists pulled over and exchanged words, Anthony allegedly pulled out a pistol and fired it into the air three times, Sgt. James Ella said. Police responded to reports of shots fired and eventually stopped the suspect on Highway 101 near Sheffield Drive.
Following a DUI evaluation, authorities took the 59-year-old into custody on suspicion of possession of a loaded firearm, brandishing, negligent discharge of a firearm and driving while intoxicated.




